Monthly Archives: June 2014

信任让事情变的简单

这两天被筹资的事情搞的心烦意乱,我也是凡人,被人质疑,肯定要不爽,然后着急要找证据证明自己的清白。但我也清楚这事情我是有做的不妥的地方的。但是原本可以很简单的事情,因为一两个sb搞的心力憔悴。而我还在上篇博文里把交易日期和手术日期都搞错,提前了一个月。现在是无力自证清白了,也懒得证明什么了,让他几个自以为是的SB自己瞎猜去吧。

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上面一段话来自朱峰@zhufengme 老师的推特,地址在这里https://twitter.com/zhufengme/status/477108403102154752

我和朱老师也是以前在香港碰过一次面,后来我们一起合作做了一段时间威众路由器,我还去他天津的公司考察过。那时候还开一辆很破的什么车子来着,后来公司做大了,换了一个cc,据说就因为这事也被人bb了好久。呵呵。他在这时候发这段话确实给我很大的安慰,在这里谢谢朱峰老师和其他朋友的信任。

然后口袋老师(@kotayabukid)也给了一篇文章,还是中英双语的,感谢口袋。再次也转载一下,原帖地址在这里,欢迎围观。

Think critically
Today, a friend on Twitter was questioned regarding money-lending issue, which reminds me of what happened to me in 2012.

I admit that it’s hard to trust someone when financial issues are involved, and even when the trust is established, it’s very vulnerable. Seeing is believing. Please talk to the person and get to know what kind of person is he. It’s unwise to judge someone, especially a friend, base on rumors or words from strangers.

However, your trust may be betrayed. If you are having butterflies in the stomach after you get to know the person, then maybe it’s time to stop trusting. In this case, your loss of confidence is based on your own judgment, and not on someone else’s judgments or “proofs” that cannot be proven.

Profits come with prices. No one can separate them apart. As for me, if I choose to trust, I would hesitate on things that cannot be verified.

Friendship can be fragile. Please give your friend a chance to explain the whole story, or you might lose him as a friend. Everyone wears a mask. Words or “proofs” published on public medium usually cannot present the whole picture. If you cannot get in touch with your friend when things happened, then you should reconsider your friendship. If you are able to contact him, please give him a chance to explain before you make any decision.

May friends be with you!

中文大意如下:

 

独立判断你看到的事情
今天在twitter听说一个朋友,因为钱的问题遭到质疑,让我又想起2012年同样发生在我身上的事情。
我知道在钱的问题很难达成信任,甚至这种信任都是岌岌可危的状态。但我想告诉看到这篇文字的人,选择去相信什么事情,都远远小于你亲自去接触这个人,去了解他是什么样的人,你不应该仅仅凭借一句话,甚至你不了解和信任的人,说了什么,去对你曾经的朋友做出判断,我不认为这是理智的行为。
很可能你因为看了我的建议,而遭受到更大的损失,我承认会有这种情况出现,但如果这种不信任的感觉,是因为你的独立判断而出现了,那么我认为你应该去做一些停止的动作,但你要明白,这是因为你做出了判断,而不是基于一个陌生的人,拿出了不可证实的证据而去做出的判断。
代价往往是伴随利益的,我们永远无法独立出代价或利益,我个人会采用如果我信任,我就不会过问,也不会相信超出自己的判断。
朋友的交往很难得,希望不要因为没有给自己的朋友一个解释的机会,而失去一个朋友,任何人都有面具,公开的渠道往往并不是事情的真相,如果你都无法联系到你的朋友,那我建议你慎重考虑你们的友谊,如果你能找到你的朋友,请给他一个解释的机会,听听他的说法,再做出你的判断。
我只希望任何人的友谊可以长存。